Life taught me a lot. Life taught me Life taught me how to live

No subject in school will teach us about life. That is why we learn to live on our own mistakes, big and not so ... But what is the goal? Definitely be happy and enjoy every day! But why is it so difficult sometimes?

No subject in school will teach us about life. That is why we learn to live on our own mistakes, big and not so ... But what is the goal? Definitely be happy and enjoy every day! But why is it so difficult?

Learn to live - learn to accept

There is one thing that is difficult for us throughout our life, regardless of age - is to accept anything. This acceptance begins with ourselves and ends with other people and events. That is, in order to accept others, it is important to first accept yourself, and this not easy at all.

Accepting yourself means loving and appreciating yourself, with all your shortcomings and mistakes that you made. We need to accept the fact that we are not perfect, that sometimes we are not able to do something on our own and we may need help, and most importantly, that there is nothing wrong with that. All this only makes us stronger and better.

As soon as we succeed, we can "take" for others. This can be tricky. We must accept the fact that people come into our life and leave it. at our discretion and for reasons beyond our control, that they sometimes disappoint us, lie to us, do not justify our trust.

All of this is an integral part of our life, so in order to learn how to live, we must accept it. Refusing to realize this, we simply run away from (emotional) problems, but this "escape" is temporary and ultimately does not lead to anything good.

Tomorrow will be a new day

Life is not at all an eternal holiday, not only the sun and joy, there are a lot of moments of "pitch darkness" in it. And to learn to live need to stop dramatizing eventsbecause sometimes we thicken the colors and see much more problems than we really are. Everything is not so terrible, but our feelings and emotions intensify any negative state and we ourselves “wind up” ourselves and begin to believe that the end of the world is coming.

Surely, you also had such moments in your life, and now, looking back, you understand: “Yes, everything was bad, but not to that extent". But then it was perceived as something catastrophic.

So learning to live means not dramatize certain life situations, because what they are all transitory and in the future will become for us another event in the piggy bank of everyday experience.

What can you recommend here? So that you try to enjoy the present, and you should benefit from both positive and negative aspects (the latter, perhaps, are even more important, since it is they teach us life).

Bad times are actually very good for us, they are often turning points when we stop to think about life and, if necessary, change something in it.

Enjoy and Appreciate

Learning to live - learning to enjoy every moment and appreciate what we have now.

After all, time flies so quickly, and we also adjust it, we are too focused on some of our future goals that we simply do not have time to fully live own lifetoday and now. And this is a big mistake!


Just don't get it wrong - it's not about forgetting about your obligations and doing nothing. It is clear that most of our time is "busy" with work and other things.

But every day you need to devote to yourself at least one, albeit a short moment.

Think about it: most likely, it is not a lack of time, but the fact that we do not know how to organize this time correctly. The laziness and chaos in which we are immersed makes us waste precious time, instead of enjoy it.

Let's start today to devote some time to ourselves? Try to do what you really like every day: spend time with your children, take a walk, relax, remember your hobby ... Just don't let the days drag on one after the other, turning your life into a routine and complete nonsense.

So as you can see, learning to live is not easy it is a process that can take a lifetimebut most importantly, never stop.Life is beautiful, despite the difficult moments and there is a lot of happiness, joy and light in it.

So enjoy each day and continue to learn to live from life itself, it gives us invaluable lessons. published

To love, suffer, regret and hate
And only to answer good with good.
Do not hide grudge against human evil.
Forgive mistakes, help the weak.
Appreciate friends, endure reproaches from fate ...

But how hard are her lessons.

Reviews

Elena, I read four of your poems and after each I wanted to leave a review on it, but I wanted to see what was next.
After reading what I have read, I got the impression that you have a delicate and very vulnerable soul.
You have a great feeling of love, both for life and for everyone who meets on your life path.
And I also felt how strong you have a feeling of optimism and hope that everything should be fine.
And these eight lines, as if, summarize everything that you write about.

But how hard are her lessons. "

In our youth, life seems to us rosy and happy, but along the way, we often have to meet human evil and make mistakes, suffer ...

But this verse says that your heart, despite the fact that you had to endure a lot, did not harden, but, on the contrary, learned to love, regret, be able to forgive, appreciate friends, help the weak ...

This verse says that you are a strong person who managed to master what is irresistible for many.
Good luck, peace and tranquility!
And thanks for the wonderful poetry.

Thank you Lyudmila for your feedback. Yes)) my innate optimism dominates the acquired pessimism)). And as I write in my poems, life has taught me a lot ... But I try not to lose heart))) Life goes on)) And my poems help me.

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I sincerely hope that what he will read now will be very useful to someone in life. I am sure that if people remembered these simple things always, or at least sometimes remembered, they would be able to avoid many mistakes and they would not so easily fall into the traps that Fate has prepared for them. I really want to believe that someday we will learn to live, noticing the mistakes of others, without repeating them in our own experience.

I wish you happiness, good luck, fulfillment of desires!

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1. Always believe in good things!

Thoughts are material. This is true. Faith is the main tool, it is something that cannot be taken away from a person. She really works wonders. You can just believe and get what you want. And even if you don't get where you want to be, having a positive attitude will serve you well. It will save your nerves, keep your emotions and give you confidence that everything will end well. And this is already a lot!

"Miracles are where they are believed, and the more they believe, the more often they happen."
D. Diderot

2. Don't get attached to anyone!

The power of love is expressed in two things: trust and freedom. Without them, there is no fulfilling and healthy relationship. No person is your property, no matter how much you love him. He always has the right to freedom of choice. And if he decides to leave, then he should be released, even if it is very difficult and unbearable. Therefore, living with a loved one, do not forget that the choice is only his choice, and his decision is only his, and not yours. Attaching yourself to someone, you leave no choice either to yourself or to your loved one, because you entangle him hand and foot with your love. Instinctively, a person will try to break out of these shackles, and you can lose him forever.

"Where fools flounder, the wise have no attachment."
Buddha

3. Pay attention to the little things!

Here you need to stipulate: not on pettiness, but on trifles. These are two different things. For example, when a person throws a cigarette butt or an ice cream wrapper into an urn, and not on the lawn or in the grass, when he gives way to a woman in the transport and passes her forward, and does not rush to take a seat first, as he treats his loved ones how attentive and caring he is - after all, he will treat you the same way! It is the little things that are indicative. There is nothing difficult in donating a car or an expensive piece of jewelry with a lot of money at your disposal. And it’s worth a lot to write an SMS when you didn’t agree on it at all, and to make an appointment at the hotel opposite yours, where you came to a neighboring city for a week on a business trip.

"You can't see the water in the stars, but when you look down, you can see the stars in the water."

4. Do not try to change the other person - change yourself!

You can only change yourself. The only exception is extreme stress, which turns the psyche inside out. But we are not talking about that now. "Become what I want" - is well sung only in the song. He will not become what you want to see him! He will be himself, as he is, if he does not want to change. Change yourself. Change your perception, attitude and vision. And you will see how much easier it will become for you to live and be. If another person changes, if he has such a desire, take it as a gift of fate. If it hasn't changed, that's okay! After all, you have changed! You have become different! This will be the solution to your problem.

"I used to say, 'I hope everything will change." Then I realized that there is only one way for everything to change - to change myself. "
D. Ron

5. Always wish people well!

Everything that you wish for others will definitely come back to you someday. If you want to get happiness - wish people happiness, if you want love - wish love, health - wish all people health, if you want more money - wish others financial success and more!

"I know of no other sign of superiority than kindness."
L. Beethoven

6. Don't be afraid to love!

Mutual love is, of course, happiness. But, alas, not the rule. It also happens: we love, but we are not noticed. And here it is very important to behave correctly. Your future depends on your behavior. You should not torment yourself, engage in self-criticism, come up with a plan for revenge, bewitch and engage in other nonsense. Allow yourself the luxury of being happy with what you love. Let's start with the fact that not everyone is given this, and the fact that you can experience bright, divine, selfless feelings is already good luck! Conduct a mental dialogue with your loved one, refer to him, discuss everything that worries and interests you. I can assure you that miracles are not rare. And who knows, maybe one day he will pay attention to you. If it is not your destiny to be together, you will surely meet another person who will make you happy and be able to turn your attention to him.

"Fear is the opposite of love"
Osho

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7. Learn to be grateful!

Very often we do not notice the good that we receive from the Universe and from other people. We take it for granted and for granted. But it doesn't have to be that way. It is necessary to be grateful not only for something global, but also for any little thing, even for the fact that every morning you wake up and the sun is shining through your window, or the rain is pouring, or the wind is howling. Because you live in this world, and every day small and big miracles happen to you, which you do not notice, because you are used to them and take them for granted! Stop for a second. Listen to your heartbeat and thank this world for being in it.

"When you receive, do not forget to say thank you - and you will receive even more"
W. Blake

8. Don't be afraid to start from scratch!

Things don't always go according to plan. There are situations when you think that the world is crumbling and everything is going to hell. Know how to say to yourself at such moments: "No, this is not the end! Yes, a problem. But I will definitely cope with it!" Don't be afraid to start from scratch and over again. It doesn't matter how many times you fall. It is important how many times you got up and continued on your way. Try to learn how to get up and walk forward. Only then will you be able to reach the top.

"Whatever it is - go ahead"
I. Goethe

9. Try to give more!

Unfortunately, the reality is that people are usually selfish, consumers caring only about their own needs. They only want to take. Few people care about other people's needs. And no one wants to share or, what good, to give. I am not saying that all problems come from this, but some, and quite serious ones, are necessarily closely related to this point. No wonder one of the Russian folk proverbs sounds like this: "As it comes around, it will respond!" The more we do good, the more we get it back. And it's not just about money. It is also friendship, love, mutual understanding, peace, harmony, beauty, harmony, comfort, tranquility and serenity. Try at least sometimes to help people just like that, without any ulterior motives, without hope of reward - to help out of trouble, to say an affectionate word, to give your warmth and good mood, to support, to give the necessary advice on time, to protect them from danger, if possible and in your best, just smile and wish another good luck! And you will definitely see how your life begins to change for the better. Only this should be done unselfishly, without expecting gifts and rewards. You may not become a millionaire, but you will certainly become much happier.

"Do good and throw it into the water"
Proverb

10. Learn to forgive!

I'll make a reservation right away that there are things that can be forgiven and that cannot be forgiven. I'm talking about the former. Ask yourself, aren't you too often taking on the role of arbiter and posing as a proud lone truth-seeker? After all, they say the truth: we do not see a log in our own eye, but we notice specks in someone else's. We ourselves are not always white and fluffy. However, smart people generally forgive us for our shortcomings. So why are we worse than these smart people? If you dig deeper, it turns out that our forgiveness is not always necessary for another person who, for example, did something not very good. Not all people know how to separate good from evil and white from black. And they probably don't need it - forgiveness. But we need it. Try to quickly get rid of resentment, anger, rage, desire for revenge. All these things are destroying us. They spoil our mood, break through our biofield. You will not change vile, dishonest, deceitful and evil people. It is their right to be like that! They chose this path for themselves. Do not waste your nerves, health, your mood on them. "Let go of the situation" - let it go. Remember that these people have already been punished by living in our world with such an entity. And when a person is completely different, when he himself is worried about his wrongdoing or wrong action, does not sleep at night, repents, asks for your forgiveness, then, in fact, not to forgive such a person is fundamentally wrong. He repented and realized everything, and hopes for correction, and you, except for cultivating your own pride, cannot console yourself with anything.

"Strongest of all victories is forgiveness"
I. Schiller

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Reviews

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