The main profession is mom. Mom's profession class hour on the topic. Mom's main assistant

A woman who has just given birth to her first baby learns a new one for herself profession. Now she - Mother. Mother- this is status, and achievement, and prestige, and pleasure, and work. Agree, all of these epithets are quite applicable to many modern professions. Only at work such words are pronounced with pride and appreciated by others, but at home by family members mother's labor taken for granted. It was the husband who came home tired, and the wife was already at home = did nothing. Ah, with the child sat? So for this special efforts and no qualifications required! This is most often thought by people who have not directly encountered children.

We have two children in our family - boys 4.5 and 1.5 years old. We are often invited to visit or go for walks by our friends. Since I can’t leave the kids and go to fun activities with my husband, I stay at home and let him go. He needs a break after work. So my husband's work day is over, but mine continues. Uncomprehending friends sometimes remain at a loss: “What, Vika doesn’t want to walk with us?”

And only attentive fathers and experienced mothers understand that maternity leave is work in two shifts plus night duty.

For some reason, these phrases make you think. What is this profession is mother? Unfashionable. Not prestigious. Unattractive. Moms begin to complex. And a simple question: What are you doing on maternity leave?' is already leading to a dead end. After all, it’s already undignified to deal with a child on maternity leave. We are given as an example mothers who, a month after the birth of a child, are already back at work in former form. As if nothing had changed since the birth of a child. Yes, all friends and acquaintances are simply delighted with such a mother: “So well done! It's like she never gave birth! She's already gone to work!" Bravo, and more. But there is a child! Really, with his arrival in life, nothing has changed for his mother: neither interests, nor priorities? Who came up with the idea that a woman after childbirth necessarily “falls” and is lost to society? After all, its whole meaning now is in pots and diapers. What does it mean? Some go down and some go up.

It's just now fashionable to work, build a business and make a career, and not spend time with your own child, who needs his mother the most. In my opinion, until the age of 55 - the retirement age - you still have to work and work, and it is quite possible to allocate 3 years for your own child. And don't be confused mom is not the same as a housewife!

A woman was created to become a mother. And this is its most important implementation, the most important. Everyone can give advice to mothers, but not everyone knows how to fully appreciate their happiness and realize themselves in the female field. I personally like it, this field, very much. And I wouldn't trade it for anything else. My eldest son, shortly after the birth of his brother, declared that he also wanted to breastfeed him. What is it? Realizing that he was not given, he was sincerely upset. He saw that the pregnancy and feeding of the youngest was not a burden to me, and he easily accepted the changes in our family. And I think it will be just as easy for him to raise and educate his own child.

I believe mother's work demanding special approach, skills and qualifications. Maybe someone has a decree and looks like Groundhog Day, but I have to come up with something new every time, constantly learn the principles of time management, self-organization, and also take care of myself. And then suddenly they will think that “I am starting to sink and degrade.” By the way, do you remember Chekhov's story "Duel" from the school literature curriculum? What does the hero say about his mother?

“Men in domestic life are frivolous, they live with their minds, not with their hearts, they do not understand much, but a woman understands everything. Everything depends on her. Much has been given to her, and much will be expected of her. Oh, my dear, if she were stupider or weaker than a man in this respect, then God would not entrust her with the education of boys and girls.

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Collective creative work in parallel classes, aimed at rallying children's teams, creating conditions for the development of creative abilities of students. the formation of the image of the mother, family values.

Event type: extracurricular activity for students of the 5th grade in the form of a collective creative work.

Goals:

create conditions for the formation of a respectful attitude towards mothers, grandmothers, women, a desire to help them;
create a warm emotional climate between parents and children, students of the 5th grade of the school;
to strengthen friendly relations with the families of students;
involvement of parents of students in classroom and school activities.

Tasks:

To promote the emergence of positive emotions in children and adults from joint participation in different types creative activity.
To promote the disclosure of individuality, to support manifestations of initiative, creativity, independence, the development of memory, attention, organization.
To create conditions for the development of communication skills among students in the course of preparing and conducting a collective creative work.

Preliminary preparation:

The students wrote essays on the topic " Main profession- MAMA", they can be designed in the form of greeting cards, letters, wall newspapers and used to decorate the hall.
At music lessons and during extracurricular activities, songs and dances, poems, etc. are learned.

Event progress

1 leader: Good afternoon (evening), dear guests! We are glad to welcome you in our warm, cozy hall. Make yourself comfortable, prepare smiles and receive warm wishes.

2 host: Maxim Gorky wrote: “Without the sun, flowers do not bloom, without love there is no happiness, without a woman there is no love, without a mother there is neither a poet nor a hero, all the pride of the world comes from Mothers!”

1 leader: from Rasul Gamzatov: “Mother is the soul of the world, its beginning and infinity. She is a living soul, a great destiny, an object of love and inspiration. The word "mother" cannot but make us shudder, feel warmth and light.

2 host: The most beautiful word on earth is MOM. This is the first word that a person pronounces and which is in the language of any people.

1 leader: In all languages, this sacred word sounds equally gentle and affectionate, light and significant.

Dedicated to all mothers three students are reading):

I sing of what is eternally new,
And, although I do not sing a hymn at all,
But in the soul the word born
Gets his own music.
This word is a call and a spell,
In this word - the existing soul.
This is the first spark of consciousness,
Baby's first smile.
This word will never deceive,
There is a life being hidden in it.
It is the source of everything.
He has no end. Get up! I pronounce it
Mother!

(word appears on slide)

Sings...

1 leader: We all wrote an essay on the topic “The main profession is MOM!”. Let's look through the pages of our works: “For me, my mother is the closest person to me. Mom takes care of me and my brother, gives us her kindness, tenderness and maternal love. She knows how to support me in difficult times and warms me with her warmth when I feel sad.”

2 host: And here's another: “For every child, a mother is the closest and dearest person. And I'm no exception here, because my mom is the best in the world! Mom is a very hard job. For this work they do not pay money, do not give vacation and do not declare gratitude. But it's a lot of daily work. We often, voluntarily or involuntarily, offend our mothers, do not attach importance to their anxiety, not realizing that happiness is when a mother is near.

1 leader: for our wonderful mothers, a poem is performed by ...

2 host: We continue to read: “My mother is a housewife. Mom gets up early. She cooks breakfast for my brother and me and sends us to school. Mom takes care of her little sister all day. She manages everything, both cooking and cleaning the house. She never sits idle. Mom also manages to wash and iron, check my lessons, in the summer she works in the garden, loves to grow flowers. I'm proud of her!"

1 leader: But listen: “Mom ... - this word echoes in my soul with beautiful music. It makes you want to repeat this word many, many times. I want to snuggle up to her, hug her, whisper magic words so that she smiles in response and says: “I will always be there.”. At this moment it seems that I hear our common heartbeat.

2 host: singing for you...

1 leader: how beautifully it is written in another essay: “My mother is the wisest, most beautiful, intelligent, cheerful person in the world. For me, she is a true friend, a good teacher and just a favorite person. It seems to me that on earth a person has not yet come up with such a word that would express my love for my mother.

2 host:“Mom is the closest and dearest person. She protects her children from envy and anger. She will always support in difficult times. Mom teaches politeness and kindness.

1 leader: for you, our dear mothers, ...

1 leader: dance performed...

2 host: And I liked this essay: “I love my mother's smile and big green eyes. My mother is very kind and smart. She supports me in difficult times. Mom teaches me the necessary and useful knowledge that will be useful to me in life. With my mom is always fun and interesting. I want my mother to never be upset ... "

1 leader: And here's more about my mother: “My mother is very beautiful, smart, kind, affectionate, gentle, caring, but sometimes she is strict. Mom loves sweets, flowers, plush toys. My mother is my soul. Next to my mother, any sea is knee-deep. For me, there is nothing more painful than seeing my mother's tears.

2 host: Playing for you...

1 leader: I fully agree with the author of these lines: “There is a profession that is not taught at the institute. They do not pay a salary for her, and the best reward is the loving look and happy smiles of children. Mom needs a lot of strength and patience, to master a large number of different professions. Sometimes we forget about it, but she has the right to rest. I think being a mom is the hardest job.”

Dedicated to all mothers:

(a group of students 5b comes out)

Noise and rush off any trouble,
Like springtime rumbling thunder,
If she is with you, if she is always near
Maybe thirty-three she il seventy-three -
No matter how old she is, age has nothing to do with it:
In anxiety, in business from dawn to dusk
The person who holds the house.
Her husband is a general, an astronaut or a poet
Maybe he is a minister, a miner, a doctor -
She is the most important of all, there is no doubt about that, -
The person who holds the house.
Very rare, but still sick,
And then everything around somersault, upside down,
Because she, because she -
The person who holds the house.
We are being carried away by the rapid age.
In the hustle and bustle, we sometimes forget that
That she is not a foundation, she is a person,
The person who holds the house.
So that it is light in the heart and in the house,
Repay her kindness with kindness.
May you always feel love and warmth
The person who holds the house.

3 leading: the song is sung by the students...

3 leading:"Mother! There are only four letters, but the meaning is life-long ... How much warmth is concealed by the word that is called the closest, dearest and only person.

4 leader: And here is more about mom in verse:

"There is nothing sweeter than a mother's smile
As if the light of the sun will flash, the darkness will dispel the unsteady!
Like a golden fish with a tail.
Mom's smile will bring joy to the heart!

3 leading: dancing for you...

3 leading: Dedicated to all mothers 5th grade students read)

3 leading: how many epithets our classmates picked up for the word “mom”: “Mom is joy, care, ringing laughter, the warmth of gentle hands, the dearest, kind smile, tenderness, faithful eyes.”

The song is being performed...

4 leader: I want to read you these lines: “In the morning, when I get up for school, there is already a hot breakfast on the table, washed trousers and an ironed shirt are hanging on a chair. My mom works, but she always finds time for me and my brother. We read books, draw, sculpt crafts from plasticine, collect puzzles. How lucky I am to have such a wonderful mother! Mom is the most beautiful word invented by man!”

Dance performed...

3 leading: the poem reads...

3 leading: and here is what is written about the grandmother: “Grandma, like a second mother, will always find the right words to support her grandchildren at a decisive moment in life. Grandma has magical hands, Or maybe just skillful? Dealing with daily issues. And the pancakes are delicious! Only a grandmother can bake the most delicious pies, the most appetizing ruddy buns. She is the most wise, understanding, resourceful in the world.”

For the most wonderful grandmothers, a poem is performed by ....

Common song "Mom" (choir of 5th grade students).

4 leader: This is the end of our concert.

1 leader: Our dear and beloved mothers and grandmothers, we want to congratulate you once again on your holiday.

3 leading: And once again to remind you that we love you very much.

2 host: Although sometimes we upset, and anger, and cause trouble.

4 leader: But we are your children. And you are our mothers and grandmothers.

1 leader: And the fact that we are together and love each other is the most important thing in the world!

Just think how the world has changed!

There remains, perhaps, the only profession that, thanks to mother nature, is entrusted entirely to the share of one sex - the profession of mother.

A man can never become a mother, even if he raises a child alone. A man is never destined to give birth and experience those feelings and experiences that a woman feels during childbirth. It is not given to a man to breastfeed a baby, and for him the phrase “maternal instinct” will forever remain unconscious.

It’s a pity, but most men don’t even understand that mother is even much more than a profession. Moms have no monthly holidays, no days off, and work time not limited to eight hours a day. There is not even a guaranteed one-hour lunch, there are only technical breaks that last while the child sleeps. And even then, for sure, any responsible mother does not devote this time to rest, but irons, irons or erases - in a word, continues her work.

mother's labor

And the most annoying thing is that this hardest job on earth is also the lowest paid. Add up the sum of all the benefits and maternity allowances that are given to each mother, and then divide this by the number of hours, days or months worked, and you will be horrified at how small the figure will be! Do you think moms are more than getting moral compensation for this? Hardly. Any psychologist or sociologist will tell you that the essence of a child up to 5-6 years old is selfish to the limit, and their soul mates also do not see approval and support from 90% of husbands. And how can a man understand how hard this work is?

Not a single woman will prevent this from being conveyed to a man, but in no case should you try to do this in the form of notations or instructions. And not just “doesn’t hurt”: the fulfillment of this task is invaluable for a woman as a person and a keeper of the hearth. When a husband understands the importance and difficulty of the process of raising a child and, accordingly, takes part in this, this is true happiness. However, not all popes are easy to attach to this. The most effective advice to all mothers for whom this issue is problematic is to involve the husband in taking care of the child as early as possible. It will only benefit everyone. For a child, for example, there is no image stronger in terms of protection and authority than a father, so communication with him will not replace anything. The head of the family himself will appreciate the work of his wife more and will be more attached to the child. And the mother will find time to change her occupation, which will help her unload psychologically.

Mom's main assistant

Moreover, if your husband nevertheless decided to help, in no case should you scold him, even if he did something wrong. He put on a bad diaper, and you criticized him for it? Get offended and help no more. It is much better to sincerely praise for the help and efforts, and then carefully correct the inaccuracy. Many women, in order at first to force a man to devote time to a child, go to all sorts of tricks. They refer to poor health, an urgent need to go somewhere, etc. - if the husband "voluntarily" shirks help, then such methods are pious. And if the only catch is that the spouse considers the profession of a mother not so time-consuming and difficult, offer him at least one Saturday or Sunday to take full care of the child. Ultimately, a man will either agree with your point of view or be bent. Just do not forget to keep a close eye on the process: an inexperienced man in such matters, of course, can do things worse than an elephant in a china shop. And, again, do not spare your tongue to praise and encourage, otherwise it will be the last father's day in your life.

The most difficult time of raising a child, perhaps, lasts until the moment he goes to Kindergarten. Of course, at each stage there are difficulties, but it is up to the above-mentioned event that most mothers pull all the work associated with the growing up of the baby, exclusively on their shoulders. And it's hard not only physically, but also psychologically. Mom, bogged down in constant duties (cook, feed, clean, wash, wash, dry, stroke, fold, entertain), is completely deprived of the opportunity to take time for herself. This whole short list of tasks is exhausting with its cyclicality, moreover, often the same actions have to be performed with her husband when he comes home from work. Lack of free time, or even its complete absence, becomes the root cause of postpartum depression or stress. In addition, a woman ceases to take care of herself, which can give rise to a new range of problems. Therefore, the best result in the mother's profession can only be achieved when the mother has a quality assistant. Remember that a child who is raised by both parents is much more likely to become a complete and psychologically stable person who will achieve something worthwhile in life.

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