And lifestyle mistakes when. Major mistakes in life How to deal with mistakes and their consequences

Mistakes primarily come from our thoughts, words and deeds. Some of them are so amazing that there is a desire to be wrong over and over again. True, sometimes you can stumble so that fate will be completely broken.

I would like to start with 10 covenants, but it will not work. The universe is so many years old, and the world has changed and evolved so much that sometimes it seems that there is no room left for something new, but this is not so. Each of us makes mistakes, and more than once. And if we take, for example, life is not only individual person, but of all mankind, then you begin to understand that all world catastrophes happen due to the fault of wrong actions of people. From which it follows that people from generation to generation make gross mistakes without drawing any conclusions. We are all so independent that we prefer to break our fate on our own. It's time to work on the bugs.

1. Live in the past

No matter how paradoxical it may sound, many people prefer to live in the past. Without realizing that for complete happiness they lack only amnesia. Yes, the eternal movement forward is exhausting, but it is impossible otherwise. Outside the comfort zone and thoughts about how good it was, real life is forgiven. Even if in the past you were infinitely happy, this has passed, it's time to move on.

Sweet memories are just one of the stages in life. When a happy past is left behind, you need to look for new emotions. Happiness is a growing quantity, and it concludes in life. And life, as you know, is only a moment.

2. Doubt

Everything ingenious is simple and everything simple is brilliant. It is impossible not to agree with this. In our world, everything is banal, it's just that people like to complicate things. What you already have is not always a chapel of dreams. You can change your life today if you stop doubting yourself. You are afraid to take risks, because the fear of making a mistake is too great. But not taking risks is already a mistake. The universe appreciates miscalculations. Dispute is born in them, and in dispute truth is born.

It is important to believe in your success, even if the whole world is against you. Spit! Follow your dreams no matter what. Without faith in oneself, there would be no motorcycles, iPhones, helicopters, medicines, there would be nothing that we are used to using, and this is mediocre. The world needs you, it needs you, your innovative ideas and risky game. Yes, what to say about the world, you yourself simply need it.

3. Live someone else's life

Around successful people always full of life. Why? Yes, they just do not think in a standard way, boldly, brightly, creatively, although not always logically, but for real. Such people are carried forward by the spirit of adventurism. They do what they want. And we are very sorry that many have forgotten how it is to live a full life. Most often, such people seem frivolous, but they are not. They are just happy.

Don't think we're not asking you to be reckless. We want you to open up to something new, to enter the seething stream called real life. Stop wasting precious time on things that rob you of happiness. Quit hateful jobs, toxic relationships, problem people, bad music, boring movies, boring books, right now. Close your eyes and imagine in detail your ideal life, it may well become real. To do this, start thinking about plans for the realization of your dreams. Look for ways to get out of your comfort zone today so that tomorrow you can enjoy a new, and most importantly, happy life.

4. Make unrealistic plans

No, no one forbids dreaming, but first of all, you need to think rationally. Be objective and learn to appreciate what you already have. Wherever you are, whatever you do, no matter how smart and beautiful you are, there will always be someone who outdoes you. Life is a struggle, but only those who go their own way win. For some reason, we dream of a beautiful life somewhere outside the aisles hometown, although happiness is already near you. You just need to look carefully. In the eternal search for success, there is no finish line. Sometimes it is useful to hit the brakes in order to objectively assess what is happening around. Life is made up of little things, and it is these little things that make life special.

5. Think that everything is bought and sold

Undoubtedly, money rules the world, but it cannot be turned into the meaning of your life. Money is not a synonym for happiness, but only a good nourishment for it. Let's not lie, in modern world nowhere without money. There is only one but: some people live in order to spend them, while others spend their lives in order to earn them. Feel the difference? Of course, not everything is so simple, but the ability to balance on this fine line is the secret of success.

If happiness could be bought, we would have lost interest in it long ago. It is in the inaccessibility, and sometimes inaccessibility, that all its charm lies. And happiness, as you know, is hidden in the little things: in the smile of the mother, the pride of the authorities, in the sincerity of words, in the arms of a loved one, in affection, human tenderness. Everything that cannot be cashed out is the whole buzz of our life with you, so feel it.

6. Hiding behind a mask of indifference

No one wants to live to old age and not get a long-awaited glass of water. So start with yourself. Of course, life is not fair. There are no guaranteed ways to succeed, just as there are no guarantees that problems can be avoided. You can play by the rules and be left with nothing, or you can spit on all the laws and be on horseback. The only thing you have to worry about is honesty and sincerity. Not
lie to yourself or to others. Be open to the world, people and life in general. Remove this mask of indifference. It is important to remain human in any, even the most difficult and confusing situations.

1. Dependent and thoughtless choice
It is very strange for me personally, but most people do not make a specific choice in life and everything happens at random for them. As a result, they go with the flow, where it goes and they. I went to this university because a good friend advised me. I chose this sport as it is praised by everyone around. I chose a job according to the criterion - closer to home. What is the result?

Boring job, dreary life, unloved family. What's the point of such a life? That beats me

2. Hoping for a miracle
Pretty much the same case as above. There is only a new predicate - faith in an incomprehensible miracle. Everything will be great in the near future. There will be big changes around me and I will become happy. All this will be very soon. These are the foolish hopes people feed themselves. Only one thing is not clear: “How will something change if you yourself do nothing for this?”

3. Rat race
This case is about a hard worker. He is ready to work literally for days. And so he puts all his energy and health on the altar of the rat race. Constantly chasing in this rat race. Faster, as fast as possible.
There is no time to rest, to get sick too. This is how he fusses all his life, but in the end, no one needs it. And now the pension has earned a lot of money, but there is no health, no happiness, nothing. And then comes the realization that he did not live his life.

4. Take everything and give nothing back
The dream of everything and at once does not leave this person. He constantly thinks about how to spin a mega-scam, deceive everyone and then rest on his laurels all his life. As a result, a person constantly runs around in search of another incredibly cunning idea, takes part in all super-promising projects. He thinks that he is about to solve all his problems with one click of his finger, but in the end he has even more unresolved problems.

5. Baran and old gate
The man chose his own path - this is the creation of video cassettes. He has achieved a lot in this business. But the video cassettes were outdated, and his skills were simply not needed. But no, he will prove everything to everyone. He will go to work in three days as a watchman and in his free time will turn video cassettes manually. In general, a misunderstood person who is misunderstood and offended by the whole world.

6. I am a small person
Well, everything is pretty simple. A person inspires himself that he is nobody and there is no way to call him. That everything has long been decided for him and nothing can be changed. It remains only to sit quietly and simply burn through your life.

7. Find the guilty
Oh yes, there is something to discuss! Finding the guilty is always easier than looking for problems in yourself. Parents were not rich and did not pass on the gene of genius, and generally poorly brought up. Childhood was incredibly difficult: homework every day, but sweets not every day. The influence of the street and the bad climate in the yard destroyed all chances to start living successfully. Besides, a bad government that does nothing but steal from day to day. Perhaps there would be a chance to break into people, but the evil sect of entrepreneurs and businessmen will not be allowed to develop. It remains only to drink, smoke and constantly complain about life with a mother in the clip.

8. Solve my problems
There is a convenient position to remove all responsibility from yourself and throw it on someone else. Such a person will have a thousand excuses why he cannot do this or that action. After all, he has a subtle nature or a complex of stupidity.

9. All the goats, one I'm normal
All problems and hardships are attributed to the contacted people. After all, you can’t build a career with a goat-chef, goats-subordinates do not understand the elementary, nothing will work with goats-friends, and it’s better not to have anything to do with goats-men or women. Therefore, it is very difficult for such a spiritually advanced person to live. How to live when you are smart and everyone else is a jerk.

10. Life is scary and very dangerous thing.
The most ridiculous mistake. Once I got a slap in the face and that's it, I have nothing more to catch here. But this is absolutely not true!

People suffer because of nonsense, trifles, crossing out fate with a single tiny mistake, invisible even through a microscope. I am happy that I live, I can breathe, have fun, smile, sometimes crying, observing the beauty of the universe and its infinity.

Stimuli for progress, paradoxically, are still laziness, resentment and mistakes.

Tomorrow will come, then today's mistakes and mistakes will be corrected soon.

Who he was, time will tell. Worst or best is not clear. If learning happens on mistakes in life, then my successful mistake is he. A failure with a loud crash - bright, but beloved.

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Mistakes are equated with punctuation marks, so that there is meaning not only in the written lines, but in fate.

Life consists of privileges, which are delusions, maximalism, mistakes in life, misfortunes and many other vices. There are no privileges in the afterlife.

We meet, we meet, we fall in love, we make mistakes. Life is elementary when it is already joyful because your loved one is holding your hand.

I am weak in spirit and nerves - I run away from scandals, cold, reproaches, hide in my shell and wait out the critical period alone so as not to hear reproaches for incompetence and uncleanliness.

People often make mistakes in life, They only built it for so long, they break all plans, They break children's dreams into pieces, they finally get confused, and then everyone who was nearby turn away, hoping that this is a dream, trying to wake up, with pain in the heart from mistakes it is difficult live, and only mom can forgive you everything ...

don't cry, baby... well, we broke up, so what? people live together for 35 years and disperse. what is 3 years? nothing. analyze your own mistakes and try to build your life with clean slate.

Why do parents often interfere in our lives? After all, we also have the right to make mistakes ... and we learn from our own ... I want them to learn to trust us ... -

Only a person who goes forward in spite of difficulties and sometimes making mistakes will find the right light in life.

We strive for ideals all our lives, but only when we reach the highest point of fulfillment, our desires, do we understand that from the very beginning we needed very little to be happy. It is sad to think that a person will never understand this without making a mistake ...

Sorry I was wrong. -I know. in my life I made a mistake only once, when I met your eyes. ©

The biggest mistake we make in our lives is believing what other people say about us.

if I ever get a chance to meet you again in my life, I swear that I won't repeat my previous mistake... I WON'T LET YOU GO!!!

I realized that nothing will save, in the end, life on earth, except faith in life itself, in its power of healing, in its ability to survive our mistakes and greet us when we learn to correct our mistakes. MJ

Just one mistake in your life can make your whole life a mistake...

Dear Santa Claus, I want this New Year I got a call from an unknown number, I made a mistake ... but so wrong, so right for life !!!

Even if it will be my worst mistake in my life... but it will be MY!!!

We have the right to make mistakes. We wait for affection when we feel bad or when we make a mistake in choosing a path. We must be able to think about ourselves. Life is unpredictable. It requires us to be independent. We are breathtaking, we are overwhelmed with fears, we wander in the dark ...

honey remember... you will never find a silly girl like me!!! who will ask you everything!!! I'm an angel... and you are the biggest mistake in my life... I've messed with you more than once... but it won't happen anymore... I don't love you... I'm FREE!!!=))

Play with me more friend life friend pain. I made a mistake at the hour when I divided my life by zero.

I'm watching a movie called "my life". I looked it over a few times, but still couldn't find the error in the script that caused us to break up.

We had such dreams: a family, children, a happy life without quarrels and insults! But it all ended in one moment, because of your stupid mistake! Why was all this???

I read the status - “I ask you girls .. Never listen to the advice of your girlfriends regarding your personal life ... Hear. ?? Never.. !!" baby, don't you think that you have your own head on your shoulders? and blaming your mistakes on your girlfriend is at least not nice !!!

Do not be afraid to make mistakes, stumble and fall, often the greatest reward comes from what scares us the most. Maybe you will achieve everything you want, or maybe even more than you imagined. Who knows where life will take you, the journey is long and in the end the journey itself is the goal.

The worst mistake you can make in life is to be afraid to make a mistake all the time...

Errors are the punctuation marks of life, without which, as in the text, there will be no meaning.

No one will help me ... No one will help me correct all the mistakes that I made in my life ...

such mistakes are not forgotten. They become the most significant and “nostalgic” in our lives. bug people

The biggest mistake you can make in life is to be in constant fear of making a mistake.

Sheet-life, we do things with a pencil, we try to erase mistakes with a soft eraser, but you always need to check the quality of the eraser so as not to make dirt on the sheet .. (c)

Errors are the punctuation marks of life, without which, as in the text, there will be no meaning.

life is work on mistakes, but there are mistakes that cannot be corrected, they firmly settle in the soul of the person you hurt ... !!!

The biggest mistake you can make in life is to be in constant fear of making a mistake. (E. Green)

life is a good teacher...but she takes dearly for her mistakes..

And she learned to be silent about what is in her soul, because no one cares. Maybe, of course, this is the biggest mistake in her life. But she has learned. (

You can do more, just believe in yourself. You believe in strength, do not let yourself be swallowed up by negativity. You are in live life, even though there were mistakes.

The biggest mistake is to make the life of another person the meaning of your life. (With)

Most of our life is spent on mistakes and bad deeds, a significant part of it takes place in inaction, in the fact that we do not do what we need ...

You meet a guy for a long time, everything seems to be fine ... and then a dream guy appears in your life ... and you don’t know what to do (((you are afraid to make a choice (and I made a mistake (now one ...

Starting life from scratch, use a simple pencil and an eraser ... Well, you know, like in school, in which case, you could correct mistakes without much effort.

I want to return time back, live it again ... And do everything. what she did, without changing anything, but repeating old mistakes. Only after them did I learn to live ... But my main mistake was the table YOU: first gave me life with your love, and then again took it from me, teasing like a little child!

life is like a house of cards... the slightest mistake... and everything is destroyed...

The smartest thing in life is still death, because only it corrects all the mistakes and stupidities of life (p.) V. O. Klyuchevsky

all the most important mistakes in life begin with the words: it will be better ...))

It would probably be funny if it wasn't so sad. The past is gone but without you now somehow empty. Give me a look and a loving smile. I love. Without you my life is a mistake

- The biggest mistake in the life of a fifth-year student is to lose a record book! - And the biggest mistake in the life of a first-year student is to approach a fifth-year student and ask: “Can you show me your transcript?”

If you found a person and made a mistake in him ... do not be upset ... and do not be afraid to be disappointed again ... such is life .. you will meet your person but it just should not happen now ..

The best school is life, the best teacher is a mistake, the best education is experience!

Boy, hang out 😉 When it seemed to me that I needed you, I was depressed) I made a mistake in you, as well as in a dozen others who are already beyond the boundaries of my life) You are there)

the mistake of the first minute leaves a trace for life ...

How nice it is to realize that if you are a mistake in someone's life, then you are still the best.

Mistakes happen in life. Some even have names.

People often make mistakes in life, The world that has been built for a long time is broken in a second. Shatter children's dreams into pieces, Completely confused. And when everyone who was around turns away Hope it's a dream, trying to wake up. It's hard to live with pain in the heart from mistakes And only mom can forgive you everything ...

And yet you were mistaken in saying that it would hurt me when he disappeared from my life, I just miss him ...

It would be a mistake to believe that this day is a mistake. This is just the result of numerous mistakes. I look back at the past as if looking for a marriage to eliminate it. But this is life, damn it, not a clock, not a computer, not a mobile phone that can be fixed. It's my fucking life.

A mistake in life is a misdeed that did not bring pleasure.

He was the worst person in my life. Or better, I don't know yet. If it's true that one should learn from one's mistakes, then he is mine. best mistake. He is my brightest and most favorite failure.

this is MY life and MY mistakes .. I'll figure it out myself ... without you!

this is how it happens, you made a mistake once, time passes, and you understand that if it were not for the mistake that you considered a trifle, your life would be completely different ...

Mistakes will always be a part of our lives, so why waste time kicking yourself for the sins of the past.

it hurts never your boyfriend left you it hurts when your mom cries… mother’s tears are the biggest mistake in our life… friends don’t make your mothers hurt tears because of you…

And how I would like to return everything back, correct those mistakes that will already remain in my life - forever!

she has learned to remain silent about what is in her soul, because no one cares. maybe, of course, this is the biggest mistake in her life. but she learned.

life is a good teacher, but she takes too much for her mistakes..

If you feel that you have not made a single mistake in your life, it means that in your life you have not tried anything new.

Maybe, of course, this is the biggest mistake in my life. But I have learned...

Keep in mind that no matter what you do, mistakes will always be a part of your life. So don't waste time kicking and cursing yourself for the sins of the past.

Errors are the punctuation marks of life, without which, as in the text, there will be no meaning.

In a couple, we all make mistakes in life .. (c)

If the bottom button of a shirt is not buttoned correctly, then all the others will be buttoned incorrectly. There are many mistakes in life, which are not mistakes in themselves, but the consequences of the first button, buttoned incorrectly.

And every day, scrolling through the past day before going to bed and correcting all the mistakes, makes your life perfect ...

Life is a good teacher ... but it takes the road for your mistakes ..

We all make 2 mistakes in life: we bury a living relationship and keep a dead one

And she learned to be silent about what is in her soul, because no one cares. Maybe, of course, this is the biggest mistake in her life. But she has learned. (With)

Getting married is a very serious step! When we quarrel with our parents, we don’t think that we need to look for new ones! So the husband should become a native little man! One for life! The main thing is not to make a mistake in choosing!

Errors are the punctuation marks of life, without which, as in the text, there will be no meaning.

A true friend who wishes you well will definitely point out your mistakes, but a person who wishes evil will decorate everything with flattery and lull the mind ... Such is the law of life (c)

Or maybe in fact no one puts spokes in the wheels for us? maybe we ourselves interfere with our happiness, making stupid mistakes and regretting those who we don’t need at all, passing by those who are able to bring joy into our lives ..

One mistake in your life can make your whole life a mistake.

The one who does not try is not mistaken, the one who does not make mistakes does not learn, because they learn from mistakes, Just do not be afraid to make mistakes, mistakes are a big part of human life, except for those that cost in life ...

all blunders in life begin with the phrase “it will be better this way”

All the mistakes that were made After life will be forgiven And the friends that were abandoned Will quietly say that everything in the past will be forgiven, people, you know, except for the tears that our mothers shed empty beds at their children at night ..

I fell in love like a first grader. There are so many guys around. But for me he is the only one. His eyes. So kind. Funny. His smile is the most dazzling in the world. But it is a pity that now he is not smiling at me and does not see my suffering. Why can't you turn back time and return those better days in my life? and those mistakes made by me, to correct?

I will not refuse to live my life from beginning to end. I only ask for the right, which the authors enjoy, to correct in the second edition the errors of the first.

This article talks about how mistakes in a person's life affect his life path. Almost all mistakes are necessary for life experience, but the ability to forgive yourself for misconduct is necessary.

A person does a lot of wrong things in his life, if he did something wrong, then he is told that they learn from mistakes and this is necessary for life experience. Many people do not know how to feel about what they have done, especially if it has hurt loved ones. Mistakes are not only their own, but also others. Are they really needed for the right path in life?

How do people perceive mistakes?

Mistakes in life are many and very different depending on how people accept them. There are stupid things that then lead to the fact that he is simply touched by his naivety in the past. Some mistakes help a person gain invaluable experience, he can even give advice to others based on his past behavior.

There are global mistakes when a person chooses the wrong path at all, which he really wanted. For example, he chose the wrong profession, job, life partner. These are the mistakes that practically cannot be corrected, because it is impossible to change what has already been lived. People who make global mistakes suffer greatly from this.

If the mistake is no longer corrected, then the person considers himself a victim of fate and falls into depression. But you can always correct the situation and direct it in the right direction. To understand yourself and the situation that was the fault of a person, you need to ask a few questions. They must be answered honestly.

What questions should you ask yourself to fix a difficult situation?

What is the reason for making mistakes? You can’t lie to yourself on this issue, even if the fault lies entirely with the person, and it is very difficult to answer.
Could this have happened by accident? Sometimes it happens that life dictates its own rules and puts them in such a framework that practically nothing depends on a person. If everything happened just like that, then you need to remember these words: “Everything that is done, everything is for the better!”
What life experience can be drawn from this situation? Only loafers can not make mistakes in life.
Who can help fix the situation? You can always ask for help, there is nothing wrong with that. The mistake sometimes helps to find new friends.
How can a person solve a problem? Mistakes should always be tried to be corrected, because guilt can overwhelm. Sometimes this happens after a while, when a person is fully aware of his guilt. You need to come up with a plan to get out of an unpleasant situation.

How to learn to forgive mistakes

A person sometimes makes mistakes because of surrounding stereotypes and fear of other people's opinions and condemnation. Often a person is afraid to take a step that he considers right, but others say that this is a bad deed. If a person is unhappy in marriage, then he remains in this state for a long time, because he is worried about what relatives and friends will say if he gets divorced.

Also, people make mistakes, fearing loneliness. He fears the uncertainty of the future. For example, a woman can no longer be married to a man, but she is afraid to be alone, she thinks that she will not be able to raise a child alone, to solve global problems alone. Such women are afraid to imagine happy life without her unloved husband.

People do not change their jobs because they are afraid of being left without Money they are afraid to take risks and give themselves a chance to find more high paying job. You can pity yourself as much as you like, but you must learn to forgive yourself for all mistakes, even if they have not yet been made.

Mistakes affect a person's life path, but they do not punish, but provide an opportunity to do something new in life, to break the circle that keeps them inside. Mistakes will always be made, you need to accept them and not suffer all the time and look for the culprits. To find , a person must make a mistake at least once.

It is always easier to forgive other people than oneself, because a person always tries to justify himself. A person who knows how to admit his mistakes and forgive for them is ready to change in life.

You need to allow other people to make mistakes and correct themselves, while you need to offer your help, which is sometimes very necessary for them. You need to be able to look for new life paths, by making mistakes, then there will be something to compare with each other.

All for now.
Sincerely, Vyacheslav.

Mistakes of people aged 20 to 30 that can change their whole life - for the worse. It's good to be young - after any mistake it's easy to recover, draw conclusions and redo it all over again

Mistakes of people aged 20 to 30 that can change their whole life - for the worse.

It's good to be young - after any mistake it's easy to recover, draw conclusions and redo it all over again. However, even at twenty-five, you can make the wrong choice, which will have long-term consequences - for example, do not start saving money.

Among the topics discussed on the popular Q&A site Quora, some come up very frequently. We have selected the worst mistakes that people in their 20s and 30s make. These mistakes can affect your professional future and personal life - so try to avoid them.

1. Think that education and talent are enough for success

It is good to be smart, talented and educated, but without hard work all this does not guarantee great achievements. Sylvie di Giusto, founder of Executive Consulting Image says:

“I spent my youth in a corporate environment, and I remember how we worked at night and on weekends. During this time, my career was defined by shedding sweat, hard work and perseverance. I realized that it is very rare to cut corners. Success doesn't come easy. Never".

2. Neglect your health

As we get older, we gradually realize that it is no longer possible to live like in our student years. Maggie Sutherland Cutter writes:

“One day at 28, you wake up with such a hangover that you will refuse to drink until the morning for the rest of your life.”

And the more years pass after graduation, the more likely it is that drinking, smoking or unhealthy eating will move from the category of acceptable behavior to the rank of dangerous habits.

Michael Weston, a professor of communications, says young people should also pay attention to the state of the psyche, since very often psychological problems arise in their 20s and 30s.

3. Don't save money

According to a recent survey conducted by financial services company Bankrate among 1,000 people, 69% of young people aged 18 to 29 had no retirement savings at all.

Retirement seems very far away, but if you do not start saving for it as soon as possible, you can later regret it very much.

Entrepreneur Aditya Ratnam says that it is possible to invest little by little, the main thing is to consistently.

4. Think that happiness and money are the same

Jo Choi notes that a high salary and a prestigious job, of course, can make us happy, but much more is needed for true happiness.

If you are now chasing money instead of doing what you love, you will inevitably regret it later.

5. Give up at the first sign of trouble

End serious relationship, being fired from a job, the collapse of a startup - all this seems very scary when it happens for the first time.

Failure should be used as material for self-improvement, and not as an excuse to set yourself simpler goals next time. Carolyn Cho writes:

“When I woke up the day after I was fired, I realized that this was not the end of the world. And when I was dumped, I learned to distinguish between good and bad relationships; I realized what I already felt, but I could not explain to myself until the relationship ended.

6. Depend on someone else's opinion

Early in your career, it's important not to let others make choices for you.

Known for her tough investment approach, Lori Grainer tells every entrepreneur she works with that she never lets the opinions of others influence her decisions. She states:

"Your success will depend on how you perceive yourself: it also depends on what others think of you."

7. Be impatient

Many people think that by the age of 30 you definitely need to have time to start a family, your own apartment or house and have a career development plan for 10 years in advance. This is completely optional. Be patient and focus on the present moment.

Kritina Roth, founder and director of Matisia Consultants, says: when she was younger, she felt that everything needed to be achieved as soon as possible; it bothered her and was counterproductive. She says:

“After 20 years, I have finally internalized the concept of delayed gratification. At this stage, it is more important to pay attention to the decisions that will determine your entire future life.

8. Trying to please everyone

It can be nice and convenient to maintain friendly relations with colleagues, but it is impossible to please everyone. At the beginning of a career, it seems natural to seek out the friendship of a boss, colleagues, or clients.

In fact, it is worth realizing that some of those around you simply do not like you, come to terms with this and move on. Cho says, “Of course, there will always be someone who doesn't like you. Too bad I figured it out too late."

9. To think that any friendship is forever

Sutherland Cutter asks: “Do you think your college friends will stay with you forever? By the age of forty, most of them you can hardly remember.

When friends live in other cities, you understand much better who is dear to you and who is worth spending time on.

10. Thinking that moving to a new place can solve all problems

Traveling and living in a new country is extremely broadening one's horizons. Traveling between 20 and 30 is great. However, Cho warns: do not think that by changing your place of residence, you will find the meaning of life.

11. Create a void around yourself

Of course, a good relationship important at work. But if you live in a narrow world, you will begin to look narrowly at the whole world. Think about what surrounds you. John Levy, founder of the Influencers Network, says:

“The people around you affect everything: how much you work out in the gym, what clothes you wear, how much you earn, what value system you support. So if you want to live a life full of joy and achievement, you must carefully build relationships with good people whom you respect, and without regret discard harmful acquaintances.

12. See the world in black and white

Author and investor James Altucher believes that many young people suffer from maximalism. For example, some people think that they must choose between a career for personal success and a cause that benefits society, not realizing that self-interest and social value do not necessarily conflict with each other.

13. Search for your “soul mate”

There are no ideal relationships, you need to work on them. Some of us remain single most of the time until the age of 30, while others are always in search of a potential husband or wife.

If you are one of the latter, there is always a danger of getting confused in your fantasies and dreams, and deciding: “Now I will find a person with whom everything will turn out perfectly and by itself.” Real long term relationship- always work.

Mitesh Jain writes: “These are constant sacrifices, compromises, accepting the shortcomings of others and explaining the motives of one’s actions. But that’s where the fun is!”

14. Try to plan years ahead

Cho says: "It's hard to predict what will happen in a few years and where you will work."

So stop making plans for the five-year period and focus on the current tasks.

15. Thinking everything is easy for everyone but you.

Sartak Pranit writes, "When you are young, it may seem that friends are better at managing careers and more self-confident."

But regardless of income, job or life situation, every young person has a lot to learn about life - this process does not stop until our last breath. published

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